Thursday, December 24, 2020

 

• BULLYING x BODY POSITIVITY x GENDER EQUALITY•



I look at the neighbourhood aunties, sitting in the garden, quietly gossiping about something while pointing their fingers at my friends and me. We try to ignore them but they were persistent in their gossip. I overhear words like 'moti hogayi' 'she has turned so dark ask her mum to not give her chai' 'ask her mum to give her something to eat, she is still thin as a stick', they laughed and giggled as they spoke about us.
I tried registering and comprehending this event as a fifteen-year-old.
Were these fully grown women bullying us? Were we wrong to have not said something about it right then?
Then it struck me, this little incident that I had just witnessed was the result of the never-ending cycle of bullying and trying to make women fit into the standards the society has set for them. These aunties, who were now bullying us, were probably bullied into fitting the right vision of a woman the society deemed fit.
A society so blatantly unfair in its character.
I recall a conversation with my grandmother, she was telling about the days of her youth, when she was skinny, fair and "desirable", she said she wasn't always that way and that she had to become skinny to become the "desirable" woman the society wanted her to be. She smiled and said she was keen on finding the "perfect" bride for my father too. I asked her if she thought it was fair to expect women to fit into such standards, she smiled and said "that's what my mother wanted of me, Jumaina, we never had the audacity to question our elders"

We may inherit a lot from our mothers and foremothers, but one thing we, the daughters of these brave women, pledge to not inherent is their silence. Women come in all shapes, sizes and colours and we refuse to be bullied into "fixing" ourselves.

-Jumaina Fatima
XI-B 


Saturday, October 10, 2020

MY INDIA
 Grand, mystical, festive, diverse and incredible are
some of the words that occur to one when they hear of India.
 The landscape of India is splendid, with the long
range of Himalayas resting atop the country, adorning it like a
majestic crown, the scorching deserts and salt flatlands in the
west painting a surreal white hue, the ‘seven sisters’ in the
east as closely knit as a family is by blood, the riveting sunset
views from there, the serene greenery and waters of the
south, with hints of architectural brilliance all around. India is
as diverse as it is vast. Be it people from different religions
and backgrounds celebrating their differences or the wide
assortment of foods from saccharine sweets to spicy hot
curries or a whopping number of 780 languages spoken or
the countless fine arts, our country is the very essence of
diversity.
The glory of India was not an easy feat to achieve. Years
ago, when England colonized India, our forefathers had
struggled to even survive. The craftsmen and their
indigenous art, the farmers and their dearly-nurtured crops,
the working class and their loving families, the Indian soldiers
and their dedication towards their motherland, everything
was taken advantage of. The land that was once called ‘The
Golden Bird’ looked pitch brown with the rusty prisons and
chains that bonded us; and the barren lands that were
trampled beneath the posh English boots. We were looted,
starved, shackled, whipped and enslaved in our very own
homes. 200 years of injustice and we had finally made it
through. India became independent in 1947 and rose like a
phoenix from the ashes of the British. No wonder why
everyone thought we were ‘The golden bird’. India, today,
stands among the fastest developing countries of the world.
From sports to arts, our nation is acclaimed for all the right
reasons. while ISRO launches a new satellite every six months
and Indian filmography is applauded at global events, one
such thing that is still treasured is the cultural values and
ethics passed down. The sentiments, love as well as respect
that each home carries are beyond description.
However, there are two sides to every coin. In 2020, as
the world is trying to process through a deadly pandemic,
India has its own internal issues to deal with; The political
unrest, democratic deadlock, a wave of revolution, mental
health ignorance, the long pending rights of women, riots
and a blind eye turned to all these problems. Some may say it
is mayhem. It becomes difficult to define “my india” in such
unsure situations. My love for the country makes me fear
what its future will look like but India has never been a
country to give up. The vision for tomorrow is filled with
laughter, warmth, brotherhood, unity and peace, just like the
period post-independence. What is assuring is that the
Indians are willing to dream, make an effort and grow
beyond this havoc together, hand-in-hand. That is My India.
-Samskruthi
XI-B





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But he that dares not grasp the thorn should never crave the rose. -Anne Bronte
-Aamirah Ahmed
XI-B

 

Friday, September 18, 2020

O HEART, DON'T FALL
O Love, be moderate; allay thy ecstasy,
for the men around are pensive,
their eyes show no mercy.
Grief and sorrow keeps playing their game,
so I plead thee, O heart,
don’t fall, refrain.

O sweet Venus, simmer the chariot driven by thee,
the touch of pain is evident in thy eyes,
the ones that often shine with glee.
Misery is the anchor holding thee at bay,
so I plead thee, O heart,
don’t fall, if thy may.

O bright stars, that die on such a night,
where two young lovers separate out of spite,
be gone, hatred in the awakening of love,
let lady Diana shed her light,
so I plead thee, O heart,
don’t fall, don’t put up a fight.

O motherly Juno, give me strength to fight for my pride,
as the mortal men are devious,
their hearts are cold, their tears have dried.
Let no Zeus trick thee into a treacherous kiss,
so I plead thee, O heart,
don’t fall, for ignorance is bliss.  
-Saniya Rumaiza
XI B




 INSECURE INTROVERT


Trust me when I say,

No light passes my way.

Life has been a test,

with no time to rest.


All that mattered was looks,

Nothing to look in books.

My life has been a joke,

No trust from my folks.


No one has been near,

who would call me dear.

Love was planted,

My life was haunted.


Dreams have gone bitter,

Nothing looks brighter.

I loved to share,

But no one cared.


Trust me when I say,

No light passes my way.


Now that I have your attention. Life has become so busy that we do not have time to smile at our loved ones. we care less of those who do not come in our shortlisted closed ones. Then there comes those people who are so insecure but very talented who are unable to feel free enough to express themselves. 

To tell us insecure people to just do things is not the right way because ' If to do were as easy as to know what were good to do, chapels had been churches and poor men's cottages prince's palaces ' , those intelligent words by Portia from The Merchant Of Venice by Shakespeare. There is no one who would not want to be appreciated but what pulls some of us back is the fear of judgment and the self doubt that what we are is not enough. To those people who feel like this experience will teach you to never have a moment in life that you would regret. You do not have to make elaborate speeches to express yourself. You just have to make that one single statement that sums up all your views. As said by someone  'Silence is the best answer to all stupid questions and a smile is the best reaction in all critical situations'. If you have heard the story of 'B. Wordsworth' by V.S. Naipaul in which the protagonist, a poet, tries to write the greatest poem ever written. He tries sum up all the things that happened in a month in a single line and I believe even if he could not finish it he was a great poet because poems have to be written that way short but with so much meaning and even life is that way you just have to understand what to put forward finally

Remember the golden words of Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam 'In life no one will remember how you looked, talked, walked or what you did...Everyone just remembers you by the way you made them feel when they were with you ' and this is how they judge you. Do not try to be someone believing that is what people like. You are different and unique and you are supposed to be that way. A simple smile, a hug, words of care is what people want, especially when everything has just been wrong about 2020. Life is unpredictable and you get to live just ones so give your best. People say many things but whom to listen and what you finally learn is what matters. 

To sum up all this 'You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think' the very special words from Winnie The Pooh. I just hope you start believing in all the extraordinary things you can do one day. Ending this with a small poem of hope.


SANGUINE SOUL

Careful jokes, hidden feelings,

Suppressed words, untold truths.

Craving the careless life,

Living a described one.


Jump back into 

your older self,

Live again your

 childhood days.


Find the love,

Unforgettable through times,

Find those memories,

soothing your soul.


Look back

to a joyful life,

and remember

the heartfelt smiles.


Recall those

cloudy nights,

When you were not alone,

But with hopes of a tomorrow.



 -D. Pranati Sreya

XII-A 

 


MY INDIA!

I'm assuming a lot went on in the mind of late Pingali Venkayya when he was designing the Indian flag. Three colours that represent courage, peace and nature manage to arouse a sense of nationalism in every Indian. We live in a country where 22 languages are spoken. It is a profound mixture of cultures and traditions that characterise the "Indian way".


As much as we glorify unity in diversity and venture out to explore opportunities abroad, there is reason to be proud of being an Indian. India was unified and consolidated by many rulers and governments with the Mauryan empire being the first to unify the whole of India.


The colonial era nationalism that rose during the struggle for independence brought together people from all over the country with a common intention. One against foreign ownership. We didn't deserve to be exploited. The Indian population was a collective force against colonial rule and imperialism because India was not to provide for a superpower but to provide for its own “super citizens”.


The genetic make-up of an Indian is far better than that. As a potential superpower, India has had a growing international influence and prominent voice in world affairs. After centuries of colonial exploitation, India has become a newly industrialised country. This land has nurtured people with exceptional abilities. We‘ve got artists, quaint creatures, scholars and discoveries of those who make us proud.


This makes up the race of our nation. The race of my nation. Where I have rights, a say and security. The diversity here provides an exposure that no other terrain can offer. A true democracy, which when I come of age, makes me a part of the collection that is responsible for its rise and fall. A vision that reaches out to every citizen and resident and extends a helping hand because we are meant to co-exist while embracing fraternity. I have the right to equality and justice based on the simple fact that I belong here hence I deserve it, not that which my age, gender, cast or faith might suggest. 


Looking at years to come which may or may not be on Mars, I see a collaboration that will succeed without fear and bloodshed merely because the pen has always been more powerful than the sword. There should finally come a time where my country pioneers the peaceful war. The exchange of an olive branch will be a new found custom. Afterall, this country is a land of celebration and colour, do I really want to taint it? No.


As the great Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore wrote,


"Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high, 

where knowledge is free. 

Where the world has not been broken up 

into fragments by narrow domestic walls."


Growing up under the care of proud Indians and those who lived through the struggle for independence, I, a youth that has learned to appreciate the past glories of this land while being blessed with tranquility may well feel a thrill in invoking the prayer and salutation, “Jai Hind”.

-Ammaara Bashir Babukhan

XII A



 AN INDIA OF MY DREAMS


“India is the cradle of human race, birthplace of human speech and mother
of history and tradition. Our most valuable and constructive materials are
treasured up in India only. ” -Mark Twain
India is the country which was given the title, “The Golden Bird” in the 17th
century, the country which harbors the immortal wonder of the world, The
Taj Mahal, the country which has witnessed the birth and glory of leaders
like Samrat Ashoka and Mahatma Gandhi, the country which exhibits “Unity
in Diversity” at its best and a country which builds up on the foundations of
non-violence and peace.
From being a colonial state to being a well renowned and prime economy of
the world, India has come a long way.
India is the land where the soaring Himalayas stand with all their might,
where the Ganges river feeds the agricultural fields of our farmers, where
the sultry beaches of Peninsular India attract a number of tourists.
Being a science student, how can I not mention the advancement of sciences
in India and the contributions of esteemed people like Aryabhatta, Mr. C V
Raman, the Nobel Prize awardee, Mr. A P J Abdul Kalam, the Missile Man of
India.
India being one of the oldest civilizations of the world, has beheld the fusion
of distinct cultures and traditions reflecting the secular approach and the rich
heritage of our country, in whose lap breathe the happy followers of all
religions. Ours is a unique culture which cherishes its temples, mosques,
churches, which cherishes nearly 25 languages spoken across the country,
which cherishes different lifestyles, beliefs and the spectacular diversity that
resides in this nation.
Let us not forget that every coin has two sides, this diversity makes India so
special, yet unfortunately the same diversity tends to pull the strings of
disharmony in our country. The diversity which earns India its admiration
can sometimes cause people to take the wrong step of practicing violence in
the name of diversity, contrary to the Gandhian Principles on which our
country rests. This diversity sidetracks people from dominant issues like
hunger, poverty and unemployment.
But this is where the theme of this speech “My India” holds utmost relevance
to me. An India that I would call mine not just when it is lauded and highly
spoken of but an India that I would call mine when I can contribute even a
little in crossing these hurdles and making this nation more developed, an
India that I would call mine if I can do my bit in strengthening the values and
heritage of this celebrated nation and an India that I would call mine which
can make the world a better place by practicing and abiding by the essence
of peace and nonviolence.
I would like to end by saying that it fills my heart with immeasurable joy to
say that I am a proud Indian and the land that I stand upon with pride is
“My India!”
 Jai Hind!
-Rashiqua Munshi
XII A